This may step on some toes or hurt some feelings but I hope for it to be inspirational for you by the end of it.
In this day and age there is way to much whining, crying and moaning. We think everyone owes us something. We want instant gratification and we feel we that we are just as equal as the next person and deserve the same things no matter what.
There was a time when I was a kid that I had to work hard and do my chores or whatever else my parents needed done. If I wanted something I had to work for it, earn it. It created a great work ethic, respect for others and respect for myself to be a better person. Today we want it with out working for it. Want it all for free. Free food, free medical, sit on our ass and have everyone else to do things or us.
Suck It Up!! The only one that will ever care about you is YOU! You have to be the one to make a difference in your life. You want something you go and get it. Want more money get a better job, start your own business, work extra shifts. Want a nicer car or place to live then figure out a plan for your self to get those things.
Get educated, find a mentor, go to seminars, read personal growth books. Do whatever it takes too get better and be better everyday. Be a better you tomorrow than you are today. Think about meeting your future self in 10s, 15, 20 years. Wouldn’t you want your future self to tell you great job, well done? Not hey you were doing great until that one day when you said to hell with it, its to hard and just gave up?
I’m sure you want to be the best version of your self that you can. So work on it everyday and don’t wait another day to get started. Life is to short to wait. You have dreams so why wait on them? Go and make them happen now. Lead by example.
Same goes if you want more for your children. Go and create something that will go down from generation to generation that they can run and grow them selves as well. Show them from a young age to have respect for their own lives and achieve what they want in life. It may be some tough love at times but I promise they will thank you later on.
We all struggle with if we are good enough or if we have it in us to really make a difference in this game of life but we have to suck it up and push through the hard times no matter how bad we feel or how down we are we have to get the job done.
Find your calling, find your passion and make it happen. Don’t listen to the nay sayers or the negative people that say you cant do it. You can do any and whatever you choose to do in this life. Find those positive and true people in your life that will push you and help you get to where you want to be in life.
The great and wise Yoda said “ Do or do not, there is no try”
Another words are you a Doer or a Donter? You going to do what needs to be done for yourself, your family and your legacy or are you not?
Suck it up and make it happen.